以下引用Revenger在2006-7-1 12:22:18的发言：
1st:I can only believe I am alive and I don't want to die now. What else can I believe? Everything is changing, changing as the time pass sliently. Why am I unique? Just because we BELIEVE we are unique?
2nd:What is the nature of a man? I am always trying to seek answers in my soul. But only to find different contradictions. As I may not believe all these facts, What CAN I do?
But apparently, people changes. It's easier to find out answers in facts easier to perceive and think, Right?
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A to 1st: the answer is in your question...why you are unique? why you ask me for what you should believe in?
people are different and unique individually...because they think differently...they act differently...and they believe in different things due to their individual lives...or fate if you want think this way. i have just watched a drama called "Law and Order"...and there is a line: "people have to find something to believe in, everyone does, along with their lives." well, it is not an easy quest, or a single answer that others can simply tell you, it is what your life all about. and your life is your life, no one but you can give your life an answer, no one but you can and should make this decision about what you should believe in. truely, i can easily tell you what i believe in or tell you something like what you should believe in base on what i know about you...but that is my answer...do you want to believe what i believe in, do you want to believe what others tell you to believe in? then if so, how can you be unique? is it not whether you want to or not...you cannot...because the belief isn't something you can borrow from someone else...it is a deep feeling in your heart that you can only get it on your own. for example, you can plagiarize on the test to get good score, but that isn't yours, you cannot use it because the knowledge isn't in your brain but others'...what you think the belief is? what you think why people stick on their belief? because they went through it, they suffered the tough time in their lives, they have proved this belief by their tears and bloods. so they believe in it, in deep heart. otherwise, if you just ask for aswsers from other people but never find it on your own, you can never believe in anything because you could change your belief according to what people tell you. do you believe others? do you believe me? do you believe in yourself? you are a human just like others, you have a lot of things we all have...then what make you unique?...is your answer find by yourself, which no one can steal it, it is all yours, your life is just your life, and your belief is just your belief. that makes you unique. that makes you...a man...
A to 2st: the same...i can tell you a lot about this...people can always help you, but something you gotta do on your own, seek on your own. you may feel lost, you may feel confused, you may change time by time. it happens...and it is the nature...no one cannot never change...everything in this world is changing...the matter of fact is...NOT to find the ANSWER, but go and find a SOLUTION. there is no asnwer that can always be true. no absolute law in this universe(by the way, that is what i believe in^^)...so rather than losing in seeking answers that are always changing, why not just accept the change, the situation, the reality, and find a way to deall with it...that may be easier...don't confuse yourself...by thinking...you control the thinking, which is your tool, not let the thinking controls you...and for fact, i will say there is no fact, or truth, depands on what you believe...if you believe that human come from ape, fine, if you believe god created the humanity, that is fine, too. there always are different explanations about everything...that is why it is so important that you choose your belief.
for the last word, you may see people changes, you may feel your own changing, as i said to one other friend a while ago, dont concentrate on that, dont focus on those thing are changing naturally, keep thinking about them can only make you tired because you will never find an answer...focus on what is still...stink on what you belief... that is all you need...and for a special case, i can tell you something that make you feel better temporarily, like what i always tell to myself somethimes, but later on you will find out that is no use and it is not true. it is easy to convince one, just like it is easy to fool one. but the point is not what you belief is, it is how you can keep on your believing, even though it will be tough, even though you may doubt about it...even though you finally know it is not true...even though you know you should change it...it is the same to your life...it is no about answers, it depands on how you treat your life...how you stick on your belief...how you be yourself...believe yourself first...and good luck, my friend...
